LADIES CORNER; Top Signs He Is Using You For Sex! Work Out If You Are Experiencing Any Of These Or More?

I have heard stories where a boyfriend will borrow money from a girlfriend on her birthday and use same to buy her birthday present{s} and from no other place but a charity shop. On one of those occasions, her suspicion was confirmed, when he forgot to remove the label on the item. And many more! You may be in an open relationship without knowing it.

 

Have you ever felt like there is something wrong with your relationship? Like there is something missing? Or have you ever felt like the man is just using you? Have you ever had this gut feeling that he is not really into you? To answer your fears here are the 8 signs that show he is just using you:-

 

1. He has cheated on you

When a man cheats and you found out and all that he can say is that he is sorry, then just know he doesn’t care about you, he doesn’t respect you enough not to cheat on you. He is not into you and bottom line he is using you. Even if he begs for another chance and you give him, he would still behave in such manner. So please when a man cheats on you it means he doesn’t want you and he doesn’t deserve you. He may give excuses that he had a lapse of judgement and you should forgive him. Please don’t.

 

2. He doesn’t want to be seen with you in public

There are many ladies out there who have this kind of a problem. Why would a man not want to be seen with you and you are dating? Why? It doesn’t make any logic. If he is dating you, he should be happy and more eager to be seen with you in public. If you see this kind of a sign then he has kept you as an option and doesn’t want you to destroy his chances of getting other women he likes.

Even if one day you end up going out let’s say to a club or something, he would most likely go and talk to other ladies like you aren’t there watching. If you see this just run for your life and I know you are going to find that person who would not be ashamed being seen with you.

 

3. His friends keep on telling you to leave him

If by any chance you are close with his friends and they keep on advising you to leave him. Then there is a red light there. If they tell you that the man is not in-love with you then please listen to them. Do not think that they want to destroy your relationship, they are just concerned. You may not know what this guy is saying whenever you are not around.

 

4. He constantly speaks of his ex-girlfriend

Men are complicated to know sometime, some do not open up, some do and some pretend like nothing happen. If you find a man who speaks a lot about his girlfriend, how she used to smell, how her hair was smooth, how she bought him presents then please just know you are on a wrong bus You are just a rebound and he would never take you serious. There are these extreme cases where he compares you to her and most definitely praise her.

 

5. He calls you when he needs you

If he calls you whenever he needs you, most definitely se’x. He most definitely is using you. This is the easiest sign to notice so please be on the lookout. If you have never sat down and have a real conversation with him, all you do is just se’x then he is using my sister. Or maybe he calls you to borrow some cash when he is low on cash

 

6. He doesn’t help you at all

I thought relationship was all about helping each other out and making life easier for the other person? If the man always gives an excuse whenever you ask him to help you with something and he doesn’t keep him promises then he is not into you. Even if it is a small favour you asked him to do but he always turns you down.

 

7. He has never bought you any present

The most romantic thing a man can do to a woman is surprise her with a present. Make her feel worth feel like a queen and real lady. This sign says he is not ready to invest in you and basically shows you that he is not sure of you. So the whole thing you are calling a relationship is just not

 

I am not saying that a man is not allowed to check other women out but when he does it in front of his girlfriend then that’s a problem. If he checks them out and points to you to check it out also, then you have big problem on your hands lady. You can choose to leave him or stay to see him cheat on you. Your choice.