As a young man growing up, bubbling with live and switching girls, you spend a lot of time wondering what actually turns your girlfriend on or off. Everything from technique to stamina comes under scrutiny in your quest to be the perfect lover, so having a female turn off explained by science is literally one of the most helpful things ever. Unless you’re a sexual guru of course… then you don’t have to worry.
One of the great levelers in the bedroom is that everyone was a virgin once. But sadly though, it seems that women don’t want to date virgins. In fact, approximately 42% said they’d be much less likely to get involved with a guy who hasn’t lost his V-plates.
So what’s behind this female phobia of the virgin? Referencing data from her 2013 Match.com survey, Dr. Helen Fisher surmises, “If you don’t have regular intercourse, then most people see this as a barrier to intimacy. They need time and experience to get to know that person through sex and perfect their sex life together before committing long term.”
So it’s not that being a virgin would automatically make you a lousy lover, it’s just that women see sexually inexperienced men as incapable of being decent lovers. We all know that practice makes perfect, but surely there are plenty of virgins out there who can make the boat rock?
Just like I was virgin {could still be}, I can safely say that we just need one lovely lady to give us a chance. Sadly though it seems that science stands between the humble virgin and throwing those V-plates out of the window.Kudos to Viralthread
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